A mother’s pain knows no bounds as the ex-wife of the King of Ubiaja goes public with shocking allegations against the Edo monarch
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The matter of a broken royal marriage has spilled into the public domain after a woman claiming to be the ex-wife of the King of Ubiaja, in Edo State, broke down in tears as she narrated what she described as a harrowing ordeal — alleging that the traditional ruler took their children away from her and left them in the village under the care of his mother.
A Mother’s Cry for Justice
In a video that has since been making the rounds on social media, the distressed woman poured out her heart, painting a picture of abandonment and helplessness that has struck a nerve with many Nigerians online. According to her account, after the marriage broke down, the monarch allegedly took custody of their children — not to raise them in comfort — but to leave them with his elderly mother in the village, while he reportedly moved on with his life.
For any Nigerian mother, the thought of being separated from her children is nothing short of a nightmare. As they say in our culture, “Omo ni owo abi owo ni omo?” — a child is more precious than any wealth. The woman’s tears appeared to echo this deep-seated sentiment as she appealed to whoever would listen to help her regain access to her children.
Royal Privilege or Injustice?
The allegations raise serious questions about the treatment of women in royal households — a conversation that is long overdue in Nigerian society. While traditional institutions command enormous respect across communities in Edo State and beyond, they are not above scrutiny when it comes to the welfare of women and children.
Many Nigerians who have watched the viral video have expressed sympathy for the woman, with comments flooding social media calling for justice and fair treatment. Others have pointed out that regardless of a man’s title or status — be he Oba*, *Igwe*, or *Emir — the emotional and physical wellbeing of children must always come first.
The Children at the Centre of It All
Perhaps the most heartbreaking element of this story is the alleged situation of the children themselves. If the claims are to be believed, these young ones are not living with either of their parents but have instead been left with their grandmother in a village setting — a situation their mother says she finds deeply troubling and unacceptable.
Child welfare experts and legal advocates in Nigeria have consistently emphasized that in custody disputes, the best interests of the child must take precedence over everything else — including royal pride or family politics.
What Nigerian Law Says
Under Nigerian family law, both parents have rights and responsibilities toward their children. The Child Rights Act, which has been adopted in many states including Edo, clearly states that no child should be denied access to either parent without just cause, and that decisions regarding custody must prioritize the child’s welfare above all else.
If the allegations are proven true, this case could have significant legal implications — even for a sitting traditional ruler.
Social Media Reacts
As expected, Nigerians on Twitter (now X), Instagram, and WhatsApp groups have not held back their opinions. Many women’s groups have rallied behind the ex-wife, urging her to seek legal counsel and pursue justice through the courts. Others have called on relevant authorities in Edo State to look into the matter urgently.
One commenter captured the general mood perfectly: “Title or no title, every mother deserves to know where her children are and that they are safe.”
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This story continues to develop. As more details emerge, one thing remains clear — the voice of this mother deserves to be heard, and the welfare of those children must not be swept under the royal carpet.
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