The Nollywood queen explains the mature decision that had Nigerians talking after Priscilla Ojo’s star-studded wedding
Nollywood’s fearless and ever-stylish Iyabo Ojo has broken her silence on one of the most talked-about moments from her daughter Priscilla Ojo’s glamorous wedding — and her explanation is a masterclass in co-parenting done right.
The veteran actress recently opened up in a candid interview about why she made sure her ex-husband, Ademidun Ojo, was given a prominent and honourable role on their daughter’s big day. For many Nigerians who had been following the story, the gesture raised eyebrows — after all, everyone knows that Iyabo and her ex have had their fair share of drama over the years. So why give him such a spotlight?
Her answer? Simple, mature, and honestly refreshing.
“It Was Never About Me — It Was About Priscilla”
Iyabo made it crystal clear that whatever beef she and Ademidun may have had as a couple had absolutely nothing to do with the kind of father he is — or the role he deserved to play in their daughter’s life milestone.
“My issues with my ex had nothing to do with our daughter,” she stated plainly, in the kind of no-nonsense tone that only Iyabo Ojo can deliver.
For a country where many separated couples allow personal grievances to spill over into their children’s lives — from school events to weddings and graduations — this stance is both bold and commendable. Any Nigerian who has watched families torn apart by post-separation bitterness will understand just how rare and powerful this kind of maturity truly is.
Putting Priscilla First
At the end of the day, Iyabo’s message was straightforward: Priscilla deserved to have both her parents present, celebrated, and dignified on one of the most important days of her life. No drama. No pettiness. No long-standing grudges casting a shadow over what should be a joyful occasion.
And if you watched the wedding unfold — complete with all its Owambe energy, stunning outfits, and celebrity appearances — you would agree that the day was nothing short of magical. Priscilla glowed, the guests turned up, and both parents showed up for their daughter the way every child deserves.
A Lesson for Many Nigerian Homes
Let’s be honest — co-parenting in Nigeria is still a conversation many families are not ready to have. Too often, children become casualties of their parents’ unresolved issues, used as pawns or caught in the crossfire of adult pain.
Iyabo Ojo’s approach sends a strong message: your history with your ex is yours to carry, but your child’s happiness is a shared responsibility.
Whether you are a fan of Iyabo or not, there is no denying that this woman showed up for her daughter in every sense of the word. And that, at the end of the day, is what truly matters.
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