Popular men’s coach fires back at trolls who came for his new bride after their wedding
Popular men’s coach, Gehgeh, has come out guns blazing against men who have been throwing shade at his wife’s physical appearance following his wedding this weekend.
The coach, who has built a massive following by dishing out relationship and self-improvement advice to men, tied the knot recently — and instead of congratulations flooding his comment section, some of his followers decided to turn the celebration into a roast session, targeting his new wife’s looks.
The backlash? These same men accused Gehgeh of “deceiving them” — essentially claiming that a man who preaches certain standards to other men should have “done better” in their eyes when it came to his own choice of a life partner.
The Internet Being the Internet
If you have been on Nigerian social media long enough, you already know how this goes. The moment a public figure — especially one who talks about relationships — gets married, the whole internet becomes a panel of judges. Suddenly, everybody has an opinion about somebody else’s wife.
But Gehgeh was not about to sit down and take it. He fired back, warning those men to keep his wife’s name and her appearance far from their keyboards.
The Real Conversation Here
This situation raises a bigger question that Nigerians need to honestly address: Why do we feel entitled to judge other people’s partners?
There is something deeply hypocritical about men who follow a coach for advice on becoming better versions of themselves, only to turn around and bully the same coach’s wife online. What exactly does that behaviour say about the kind of “improvement” they have actually made?
As they say on the streets — “the cobbler’s children have no shoes” — but in this case, the followers seemed more interested in the cobbler’s wife than in actually wearing shoes.
Bottom Line
Gehgeh has made it clear: his wife is off-limits for ridicule. Whether you agree with his choices or not, one thing remains true — a man’s wife deserves basic respect, and hiding behind a phone screen to insult a woman you do not know is not the flex anyone thinks it is.
Congratulations to the newlyweds. May their home be full of peace — and may the trolls find something more productive to do with their data.
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