“She Cause Am Herself” — Nigerians React As Women Defend Odogwu Asaba, Blame Late 20-Year-Old Favour In Leaked Audio

Nigerians react to leaked audio
Nigerians react to leaked audio

A viral audio clip has sparked fresh outrage online as two women are heard placing the blame squarely on the deceased rather than questioning the content creator at the centre of the controversy.

The internet is buzzing again, and this time, the conversation hits differently. A lady recently shared a shocking audio recording that has set Nigerian social media on fire — in it, two women can be heard reacting to the tragic death of 20-year-old Favour, and their take? Blame the girl. Defend Odogwu Asaba.

Yes, you read that right.

What Is Going On?

For those just catching up, the case involves content creator Odogwu Asaba and the heartbreaking death of a young lady identified as Favour, who was just 20 years old. The controversy surrounding the circumstances of her passing has triggered widespread outrage across Nigeria, with many demanding accountability and justice.

But instead of joining the chorus calling for answers, the two women in the leaked audio took a completely different — and deeply troubling — stance.

The Audio That Got People Talking

In the recording shared by the lady, the two women were heard defending Odogwu Asaba while directing blame at the late Favour. Their comments, which many have described as callous and victim-blaming, have since gone viral, drawing heavy criticism from Nigerians across Twitter (now X), Instagram, and TikTok.

The lady who shared the clip appeared visibly disturbed by what she heard, clearly posting it to draw public attention to the kind of dangerous narratives that often surround cases involving young women in Nigeria.

“This Is Why Girls Don’t Speak Up”

The reaction from Nigerians online has been swift and unsparing. Many have pointed out that this type of thinking — blaming the victim, shielding the more powerful or famous individual — is exactly what discourages young women from speaking out when they are wronged.

Comments like “She caused it herself”* or *”What was she doing there?” are sadly not new in Nigerian discourse. They echo a deeply rooted culture of victim-blaming that many advocates have long been fighting to dismantle.

> “This is the problem. A 20-year-old girl is dead and people are busy defending a content creator. Where is the empathy?” — one Twitter user wrote.

> “Nigeria will never change if we keep protecting the powerful and burying the vulnerable,” another added.

The Bigger Conversation

Favour was just 20 years old. Twenty. In Nigeria, that is a young woman barely finding her footing — perhaps in school, perhaps hustling for her future, perhaps just beginning to dream big. The fact that her death has become a battleground where strangers casually assign her blame speaks to a much deeper societal wound.

It raises uncomfortable but necessary questions:

Why do we rush to protect public figures over ordinary citizens?
Why is a young woman’s character always the first thing on trial when something goes wrong?
When will we start asking harder questions about those in positions of influence?

Where Things Stand

As the controversy continues to unfold, more Nigerians are calling for a thorough investigation into the circumstances surrounding Favour’s death. Many are also demanding that content creators and public figures be held to a standard of accountability, not shielded by their popularity or online following.

The audio has reignited a national conversation about justice, power, and the way Nigerian society treats its young women — both in life and in death.

Rest in peace, Favour. You deserved better — in life, and in how your story is being told.

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