Summary: A Nigerian woman based in the US, Omotoyosi Ogunbanwo, shares her shocking story of how a long-time friend blocked her for giving advice about his criminally-inclined fiancée. Is this loyalty or foolishness?
Eh, this life no balance at all! Imagine you see your good friend about to enter one-chance with a partner, you try to advise them, and the next thing, you’re the enemy. Na so you chop breakfast from a friendship you thought was solid.
This is the exact situation a US-based Nigerian woman, Omotoyosi Ogunbanwo, found herself in. The lady took to her page to share a story that has gotten everyone talking.
Apparently, her close male friend was about to marry a woman who had committed a serious crime. As a good friend, Omotoyosi felt she couldn’t just watch him make a huge mistake. She stepped in and advised him to call off the engagement and dump the fiancée.
What was her reward for this concern? Omo, the guy did not take it lightly at all! Instead of thanking her for looking out for him, he promptly cut her off. Blocked, deleted, ghosted… the full package.
The story has sparked a serious debate online. Should you tell your friend the hard truth about their partner, even if it could cost you the friendship? Or should you just ‘mind your business’ and let them learn from their own mistakes?
Omotoyosi’s story is a classic case of ‘see finish’. She tried to save her friend from a future of ‘had I known’, but ended up losing a friend.
So we ask you, what would you have done in her shoes? Was she right to interfere or did she cross a line? Let us know your thoughts
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